I wonder

[sombrefan]

If I should properly ask my father to be my best man at the wedding. Certaintly we got closer since my mum nearly died and I have already mentioned it to him months ago but I dunno.

I lost my best friend to a brain haemorrage a couple of years back and I have other male friends obviously but none that could be described as a best friend. I've been thinking about this for a while and I'll probably change my mind but I'd be interested in what other people thought.

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I went through this with my husband

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about whether or not he should ask his dad and brothers "formerly" and I think you should. I think that it not only means something to you but to them as well and it should be made into an occasion rather than a sidebar.